Bummed but blessed

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I just tried to open a jar of sugar water for the hummingbirds. It twisted wrong and got stuck. I tried again. And again. ARGH. I can't do what I used to be able to do, thanks to Dup. It's stuck, and I can't open it, and my hands hurt, and I'm MAD, and I just want to scream. Because now I have to wait for my husband to get home and help me. Then I remind myself that I have a husband, someone who's there to help me when things like this happen. Many people with this disease don't have anyone like I do. And so, despite these frustrations, I am blessed. I have someone who loves me and is more than willing to fill in when I'm unable to do what I want to do. 

 

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  1. MarthaJune 25, 2025 at 1:15 PM

    That stinks, Sheryl. I get so mad at pill bottles I sometimes want to throw them against the wall. But, like you , I have a husband who will eventually come home and help me. That’s a blessing. But sometimes it’s hard to keep the cuss words from flying out. I hope you don’t hear them down in south Texas! 😂😂😂My hands are crippled by rheumatoid arthritis.

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  2. Sheryl Smith-RodgersJune 25, 2025 at 1:37 PM

    Oh, bless your heart! Getting older sure has its challenges. We'll just keep forging ahead, right? And praying too.

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